Where has the sex disappeared in our marriage?

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Importance of Sex in Marriage

A long-term relationship more often than not relies on a healthy sex life – the lack of sex can lead to intimacy issues, affecting both involved in physical and emotional ways. Sex is more than a simple act of pleasure; it represents the bond, love and intimacy shared between the two people in a relationship. Lack of sex can betray deeper problems of lack of trust and communication – opening up and talking about personal problems and feelings can be the best way to solve things, both in terms of relationship and sex. This involves admitting one’s own issues and needs as well. This is of course no easy feat, but ignoring the latent problems can very easily lead to things getting even worse.

Most importantly, physical distance does in no way betray a lack of physical attraction – just because a partner becomes less eager to have sex, or seems unexcited, doesn’t mean that he or she has grown

disinterested about the other partner. Nevertheless, it succeeds in getting the other person frustrated, embarrassed, and often depressed by ushering in a sense of rejection.

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So first of all, do not feel dejected or depressed – shying away or falling into self-guilt can never be the solution. Lack of libido or intimacy on the partner’s part is more often than not concerned with a deeper issue of emotional troubles than physical attraction. Take care, as the former can be the precursor to deeper problems. Reports have shown that reasons for increased distances in sex life can be caused by:

-      Suspicions of infidelity

-      Lack of self-confidence, both emotional and physical

-      Sex has grown too customary

-      Depression, sex, chronic physical exhaustion

Although the situation is bound to be different for every couple and each person, these are general causes found in most people that can lead to intimacy issues.

Best way to solve sex problem

The best way to solve this problem is taking a positive attitude – as I’ve already said, the problem is almost never with your physical body, but with aspects of the relationship, be it habits or his/her own insecurities. Be understanding, not frustrated – things will definitely work out once your partner finds what she needs. You are not a mind reader, you say? Well that’s why dialogue is important – and in order to make your significant open up to his or her deeper feelings and problems, doing and saying the right things to reassure them is the most important step.

Love, after all, doesn’t simply extinguish itself, or disappear overnight. Remember there are always solutions to relationship problems, and talking is the fastest, and most direct route to improving things including sex.