How to get sex back into a marriage

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Few couples can escape the downward spiral of lessening enthusiasm for sex with time. The important thing to remember is that while the fire might have burned without any effort at first, couples have to start working on it after a while. After all, who wants a sexless marriage?

There are a few ways you can rekindle that old flame in sex:

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1) Wear sexier lingerie in the bedroom – Sex and relationships are always exciting at first because they are new – the unknown excites us. Trying on different lingerie from the usual can be an erotic catalyst. Corsets, bobby socks, and leather lingerie are great examples. Try some on to figure out which you’re most comfortable in, and surprise your man in the bedroom.

2) Share each other’s sexual fantasies - All of us have sexual fantasies. Why not try and figure out your partner’s deepest desires? Role-playing or bondage can spice up your sex life.

3) Try sex toys if you haven’t – on par with exploring each other’s sexual fantasies, why not try some sex toys? I understand there might be some uncertainty, or even nervousness or resentment towards sex toys, but they could turn out to be better than anything you’ve imagined. Start out with something simple, such as vibrators. Items which can be bought very easily on-line or in local shops with complete anonymity can not only spice up the sexual energy during intercourse, but can also provide intense pleasure.

4) Stranger sex – Another good way of spicing up the sex life is role-playing as if you were strangers. Arrange to meet somewhere both of you are unfamiliar with, dressed as different people  perhaps as a teacher, doctor, businessman – as whatever you like. You could try something naughtier, like a student-teacher relationship, or a naughty maid. Setting things up to meet as strangers can rekindle those first moments of excitement when you first met him or her.

7) Naked in public – now, don’t get this the wrong way, as I don’t mean any type of public nakedness. There are naked resorts and beaches all around, where people are able to show off their bodies in public. Now this offers some exotic excitement when getting naked in the bedroom has become something of a habit, or a mannerism.

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There are, if you wish to count, numerous ways to bring back the excitement and the flames into a married relationship. The tips I’ve written above are a good way to begin, and to start exploring from. After all, marriage counseling can be rather boring, and try to make you cope with things – spicing up the sex in the relationship can make it far more enjoyable. Whatever you do, remember that in order to bring the relationship back to life, you have to consider what your partner needs as much as what you want out of the relationship. Good luck!